[it would at that... is that where her definition diverges from his?]
so if somebody acts friendly but then doesn't want to know anything about you, or for you to know anything about them that'd be a pretty strong indicator that they don't actually want to be friends huh
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Date: 2017-11-03 11:21 pm (UTC)Kind of a vague question?
Friendship is having friends
[She's being obtuse on purpose, that's a hard question!]
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Date: 2017-11-04 05:32 pm (UTC)what are friends then?
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Date: 2017-11-04 05:59 pm (UTC)[There's a long delay.]
A friend is someone who has your back.
And is always there for you.
No matter what.
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Date: 2017-11-05 03:13 am (UTC)so it's a trust thing essentially?
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Date: 2017-11-06 01:57 am (UTC)That would be a really big part of it!
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Date: 2017-11-06 09:04 pm (UTC)and some other things it involve are like
the people involved liking each other
and at least to some extent knowing each other
right?
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Date: 2017-11-07 12:52 am (UTC)I mean
I suppose you could just decide you're friends with strangers.
But
It would be pretty lonely.
[And not something she did when she was little not at all nope nope.]
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Date: 2017-11-07 07:32 pm (UTC)so if somebody acts friendly
but then doesn't want to know anything about you, or for you to know anything about them
that'd be a pretty strong indicator that they don't actually want to be friends huh
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Date: 2017-11-07 09:22 pm (UTC)Probably?
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Date: 2017-11-08 07:47 pm (UTC)that is also a possibility
sigh
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Date: 2017-11-09 02:05 am (UTC)Okay. Gonna need you to turn that anxiety down about eight clicks.
Hm
So aside from when he yelled at you
Has he ever given you the impression he doesn't want to be your friend?
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Date: 2017-11-10 08:10 pm (UTC)I didn't think so??
I mean
we talked pretty regularly...
even if not particularly often...
and he seemed cool with that
[she uh. might not be great at keeping in touch with people.
a problem her mun kind of shares tbh.....]no subject
Date: 2017-11-10 10:25 pm (UTC)Hm.
It sounds like you were at least internet friends.
So just talk to him again.